Using Positive Mental Imagery For Success
Too often, when young athletes prepare to compete or perform, they imagine in their minds the bad things that might happen to them—like getting beat out by a competitor or missing a critical shot.
What they need to do instead is visualize success, says Steven Balzac, a psychology professor and former nationally ranked fencer.
“What you imagine is what you get,” says Balzac. “If we imagine success, we prepare ourselves for success because that’s what’s in our heads.”
But how exactly can sports parents help young athletes do this?
Begin by identifying what success looks like in your young athlete’s sport, says Balzac.
If there’s a person in your child’s sport who’s successful, have your young athlete watch that person—on TV, in videos, or in person.
“When I was a competitive fencer, I would watch the really accomplished guys fencing and imagine what they were doing,” says Balzac. “I would then shift the image of them doing it to me doing it.”
This technique helped Balzac execute moves in the same way the accomplished fencers executed them, he says.
Hold on, you might say. Not so fast! First of all, your young athletes might not find it so easy to imagine playing like pros!
In fact, they might fall into the trap of imagining just how different they are than the accomplished athletes. They might see themselves doing everything wrong—while the accomplished athletes did everything right.
That’s common in young athletes, as we mentioned above. Often, they’re more likely to imagine negative things about themselves—not positive.
When we ask motocross racers to visualize success, they’ll sometimes create images in their heads of their competitors, and think of all the ways their competitors are more skilled than they are!
If your young athletes can’t just jump into imagining themselves playing like pros, they can try to do it in steps.
Balzac helps young athletes get into the proper mindset by telling a story, scene by scene, he says.
“Sometimes you have to walk them through it and find a piece of it they can execute in their minds, and then go from there,” he explains. “Build from there.”
While he’s doing this, he’s careful to assume that most young athletes use imagery in different ways. Their imagery may not involve visual images, but sounds, smells or touch.
To help kids understand what they focus on when they imagine things in their heads, he asks them what happens when they dream. Do they remember the words, and not the images? Do they remember tastes, or colors or touch?
“Their responses give me plenty of information about what works for them and what doesn’t,” he says. “If I’m working with a group, I might describe the scene in different ways. I might ask them to see the beach and feel the waves and smell the seagulls. I build up the scene with different hooks in it.”
Once your young athletes feel more comfortable imagining themselves performing like athletes they admire, be careful about one thing:
They may set up in their minds a very strict idea about how they should perform, and then become frustrated if they aren’t able to do it.
Remind them that they don’t have to perform exactly the way they imagined.
Want to learn more about how to help your young athletes improve their success and confidence in sports? If you’re interested in the topic of mental imagery, you could begin with this e-book:
“Using Mental Imagery in ‘Get Ready’ Pregame Routines (For Sports Kids)”
If you’re already an exclusive Kids Sports Psychology member, you get the e-book for free, along with e-books that address these topics and others:
- Growing From Adversity: How to Stay Confident After Failure
- 12 Pre-game Tips to Help Kids Trust What They’ve Learned in Practice
You can also download videos, including:
- Assessing Your Mental Game (for sports kids)
- Dr. Cohn’s #1 Formula for Success
But that’s just the beginning. At Kids’ Sports Psychology, you can download many other e-books for parents and sports kids, plus audio and video programs and articles.
All these resources help you become better sports parents and help your young athletes get the most out of their physical talent.
Become a member today and help your kids take advantage of all the physical, emotional and social benefits of taking part in sports:
P.S. If you’re a Kids’ Sports Psychology member, you can listen to our interview with Balzac by clicking here:
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