{"id":12600,"date":"2025-03-05T16:34:14","date_gmt":"2025-03-05T21:34:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/?p=12600"},"modified":"2025-08-11T05:03:33","modified_gmt":"2025-08-11T09:03:33","slug":"reasons-why-kids-cant-have-fun-in-sports","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/reasons-why-kids-cant-have-fun-in-sports\/","title":{"rendered":"Reasons Why\u00a0Kids Can&#8217;t Have Fun\u00a0in Sports"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Young athletes often stop enjoying sports because they&#8217;re perfectionists, compare themselves to others or &#8220;mind read,&#8221; or make assumptions about what others are thinking, according to Jaclyn Ellis, a mental performance coach at Peak Performance Sports<\/p>\n\n\n\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Embed Player\" style=\"border:none\" 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