{"id":4436,"date":"2017-04-20T18:08:13","date_gmt":"2017-04-20T18:08:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/?p=4436"},"modified":"2025-07-11T02:30:41","modified_gmt":"2025-07-11T06:30:41","slug":"sports-parents-do-your-kids-want-your-approval","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/sports-parents-do-your-kids-want-your-approval\/","title":{"rendered":"Sports Parents: Do Your Kids Want Your Approval?"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4437\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/sports-parents-do-your-kids-want-your-approval-1.jpg\" alt=\"Pressure in Sports Kids\" width=\"600\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/sports-parents-do-your-kids-want-your-approval-1.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/sports-parents-do-your-kids-want-your-approval-1-300x150.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/h2>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Pressure_And_Social_Approval\"><\/span>Pressure And Social Approval<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2><div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_86 ez-toc-wrap-center counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-grey ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<div class=\"ez-toc-title-container\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Table of Contents<\/p>\n<span class=\"ez-toc-title-toggle\"><a href=\"#\" class=\"ez-toc-pull-right ez-toc-btn ez-toc-btn-xs ez-toc-btn-default 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href=\"https:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/sports-parents-do-your-kids-want-your-approval\/#Related_Articles_on_Youth_Sports\" >Related Articles on Youth Sports:<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/sports-parents-do-your-kids-want-your-approval\/#The_Composed_Sports_Kid\" >The Composed Sports Kid<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Often, young athletes <strong>worry too much<\/strong> about what teammates, parents, coaches and friends think about how they\u2019re performing on the court, field or course.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">When they seek others\u2019 approval of their performance and abilities, and then don\u2019t do well, they can feel inadequate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">They might <strong>pressure<\/strong> themselves, which can prompt <strong>fear of failure<\/strong> if they don\u2019t perform up to their expectations.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Do_you_see_what_a_downward_spiral_such_thinking_can_cause\"><\/span>Do you see what a downward spiral such thinking can cause?<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">The truth is, many kids worry about what others think. It&#8217;s a pretty common issue we see with young athletes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">However, you can equip young athletes with tools that help them keep their desire for <strong>social approval<\/strong> in check.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">First of all, be sure to think about what you say that might contribute to your kids\u2019 need for <strong>social approval.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Avoid saying things like, <em>\u201cAunt Becky is coming to your game Friday and I hope you score a lot and impress her,\u201d<\/em> or <em>\u201c I was <strong>embarrassed<\/strong> for you when you missed the open net.\u201d<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">As parents, your job is to avoid saying things that might increase kids\u2019 need for social approval.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">What\u2019s more, you can help kids identify when they worry about what peers, coaches and parents think of them and what specifically keeps them awake at night.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">For example, do they worry about <strong>disappointing<\/strong> their teammates when they miss shots? Do they worry about what friends will think if they look funny in their sports uniforms?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">If they feel this way, they&#8217;ll tighten up and will have a difficult time playing <strong>freely<\/strong> and <strong>intuitively.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Be sure to help your young athletes understand that they need to play for themselves and enjoy themselves.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">It\u2019s not a good idea to play to please others. Tell them it\u2019s all about learning new skills, or being part of a team, and having fun.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"related-articles-on-hockey-mental-game\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Related_Articles_on_Youth_Sports\"><\/span>Related Articles on Youth Sports:<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/help-sports-kids-overcome-social-approval\/\"><strong>Help Sports Kids Overcome Social Approval<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/playing-through-adversity\/\" title=\"Playing Through Adversity\"><\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/help-young-athletes-overcome-social-approval\/\"><strong>How to Help Young Athletes Overcome Social Approval<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/when-athletes-worry-about-being-judged\/\"><strong>When Athletes Worry About Being Judged<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" id=\"block-f49818fa-7c7a-4ee3-b5ee-66581aad2c71\">*Subscribe to\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/sports-psychology-podcast-by-peaksports-com\/id152566009\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>The Sports Psychology Podcast<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0on iTunes<br>*Subscribe to <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/0ynyaalKxbnNmsoeL8gF5X?si=8224669de9b3435b\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">The Sports Psychology Podcast<\/a> <\/strong>on Spotify<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-css-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"The_Composed_Sports_Kid\"><\/span>The Composed Sports Kid<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"225\" height=\"250\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2010\/03\/composed-sports-kid-small-1.jpg\" alt=\"The Composed Sports Kid\" class=\"wp-image-11173\" style=\"width:170px\"\/><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">&#8220;The Composed Sports Kid&#8221; audio&nbsp;and workbook digital download program for young athletes and their parents or coach helps kids cope with frustration and anger in sports. Help your sports kids learn how to manage expectations and let go of mistakes so they can keep their head in the game.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em><strong>The Composed Sports Kid system<\/strong><\/em>&nbsp;is really two programs in one\u2013one program to train parents and coaches how to help their kids practice composure, and one program that teaches young athletes\u2013<em>ages 6 to 13<\/em>\u2013how to improve composure, let go of mistakes quickly, have more self-acceptance,&nbsp;<strong>and thus enjoy sports more<\/strong>!&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"gb-container gb-container-26bcd9b3\">\n\n<a class=\"gb-button gb-button-903b6244 gb-button-text\" href=\"https:\/\/www.peaksports.com\/the-confident-sports-kid-cd-program\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">GET DETAILS<\/a>\n\n\n\n<a class=\"gb-button gb-button-3275f4fd gb-button-text\" href=\"https:\/\/shop.peaksports.com\/collections\/confident-sports-kid-series-digital-version\/products\/the-confident-sports-kid-bundle-digital\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">BUY NOW<\/a>\n\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pressure And Social Approval Often, young athletes worry too much about what teammates, parents, coaches and friends think about how they\u2019re performing on the court, field or course. 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