{"id":4829,"date":"2018-01-29T19:50:05","date_gmt":"2018-01-29T19:50:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/?p=4829"},"modified":"2025-07-10T07:17:24","modified_gmt":"2025-07-10T11:17:24","slug":"how-low-self-confidence-hurts-sports-kids","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/how-low-self-confidence-hurts-sports-kids\/","title":{"rendered":"How Low Self-Confidence Hurts Sports Kids"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading has-text-align-center\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-4833\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/01\/how-low-self-confidence-hurts-sports-kids.jpg\" alt=\"How Low Self-Confidence Hurts Sports Kids\" width=\"600\" height=\"300\" 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ez-toc-btn-default ez-toc-toggle\" aria-label=\"Toggle Table of Content\"><span class=\"ez-toc-js-icon-con\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 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href=\"https:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/how-low-self-confidence-hurts-sports-kids\/#To_identify_focus_issues_talk_to_your_sports_kids\" >To identify focus issues, talk to your sports kids.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-4'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/how-low-self-confidence-hurts-sports-kids\/#You_can_also_suggest_they_get_in_the_habit_of_using_the_Three_Rs_of_Refocusing\" >You can also suggest they get in the habit of using the Three Rs of Refocusing:<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/how-low-self-confidence-hurts-sports-kids\/#Related_Articles_on_Youth_Sports\" >Related Articles on Youth Sports:<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-3'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/how-low-self-confidence-hurts-sports-kids\/#Help_Your_Young_Athletes_Improve_Focus_In_Sports\" >Help Your Young Athletes Improve Focus In Sports!<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>A sports parent writes:<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>&#8220;My child gets fouled a lot, when the referee fails to make a call, or when it builds through a game, he sometimes loses control. This is usually anger boiling over. Also, when an opposing player talks to him (taunts) he can\u2019t ignore it or recognize that he is winning and just let it go. He gets angry and responds. He definitely does not have a confidence problem and is borderline arrogant It looks to me like he is responding to someone &#8216;wronging him or a perceived wrong.'&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sometimes a <strong>confident<\/strong> athlete can have very specific challenges that need to be addressed. It is important to take time to learn about these areas that may be limiting your sports children\u2019s performance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Here, it seems that the parent has identified the issue, which is the most important step.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">This sports child feels wronged, and when he feels this way in a game, he loses <strong>mental focus<\/strong> and performs beneath his abilities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"This_is_a_focusing_issue\"><\/span>This is a focusing issue.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Mark Cuban, billionaire owner of the Dallas Mavericks, sums it up when talking about sports, business, and life in general&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><em>&#8220;What I\u2019ve learned after all these years is you just have got to stay focused and believe in yourself, you need to trust your own ability and your own judgment.&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">No matter what the challenge, losing <strong>focus<\/strong> on the goal at hand will negatively affect kids\u2019 performance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"To_identify_focus_issues_talk_to_your_sports_kids\"><\/span>To identify focus issues, talk to your sports kids.<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Do they have any outside or internal distractions that may be limiting their performance?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">In this case, it sounds like the young athlete has a <strong>high expectation<\/strong> of &#8220;fairness,&#8221; a common issue in sports.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">He feels he is not being treated fairly by the referees. This opinion or expectation is distracting him from what he does best: perform!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Sports parents should help kids identify such expectations and discuss what happens when they let perceived fairness steal their <strong>focus.<\/strong> Show kids that this perception and their reaction to it are only hurting their games.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Help kids deal with strict expectations by suggesting that they replace them with more realistic <strong>mini-goals,<\/strong> such as <strong>focusing<\/strong> on playing well on defense.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"You_can_also_suggest_they_get_in_the_habit_of_using_the_Three_Rs_of_Refocusing\"><\/span>You can also suggest they get in the habit of using the Three Rs of Refocusing:<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Recognizing<\/strong> distractions, <strong>Regrouping,<\/strong> then <strong>Refocusing<\/strong> on the task at hand.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Have them practice this and try to do it as quickly as possible.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\" id=\"related-articles-on-hockey-mental-game\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Related_Articles_on_Youth_Sports\"><\/span>Related Articles on Youth Sports:<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/how-young-athlete-build-ultimate-self-confidence\/\"><strong>How Young Athletes Build Ultimate Self-Confidence<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/building-self-confidence-in-sports-peaksports-video\/\"><strong>Building Self-Confidence In Sports<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n\n\n\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/when-your-sports-kids-confidence-is-low-because-friends-excel\/\"><strong>When Your Sports Kid\u2019s Confidence is Low Because Friends Excel<\/strong><\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\" id=\"block-f49818fa-7c7a-4ee3-b5ee-66581aad2c71\">*Subscribe to\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/podcasts.apple.com\/us\/podcast\/sports-psychology-podcast-by-peaksports-com\/id152566009\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>The Sports Psychology Podcast<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0on iTunes<br>*Subscribe to <a href=\"https:\/\/open.spotify.com\/show\/0ynyaalKxbnNmsoeL8gF5X?si=8224669de9b3435b\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\"><strong>The Sports Psychology Podcast<\/strong><\/a> on Spotify<\/p>\n\n\n\n<hr class=\"wp-block-separator has-alpha-channel-opacity is-style-dots\"\/>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Help_Your_Young_Athletes_Improve_Focus_In_Sports\"><\/span>Help Your Young Athletes Improve Focus In Sports!<span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h3>\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"alignright size-full\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/focused-sports-kid-small-7.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"225\" height=\"250\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youthsportspsychology.com\/youth_sports_psychology_blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/focused-sports-kid-small-7.jpg\" alt=\"the Focused Sports Kid\" class=\"wp-image-11217\"\/><\/a><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Are your young athletes easily <strong>distracted<\/strong> by people shouting on the sidelines? Do they obsess over their <strong>mistakes<\/strong>? Do they <strong>worry<\/strong> about what people think of them?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">These issues will cause their concentration and performance to suffer!<a href=\"https:\/\/www.peaksports.com\/the-focused-sports-kid-cd-program\/\">The Focused Sports Kid<\/a> helps kids overcome distractions that can hurt their performance in sports.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.peaksports.com\/the-focused-sports-kid-cd-program\/\">The Focused Sports Kid<\/a> program is actually two programs: one for sports parents\/coaches that provides mental game tips especially designed for parents and coaches, and for young athletes, ages 8 to 12, that will walk them through 7 simple lessons in mental focus in sports.<\/p>\n\n\n<div class=\"gb-container gb-container-2050113d\">\n\n<a class=\"gb-button gb-button-030447a4 gb-button-text\" href=\"https:\/\/www.peaksports.com\/the-focused-sports-kid-cd-program\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">GET DETAILS<\/a>\n\n\n\n<a class=\"gb-button gb-button-af59ca3f gb-button-text\" href=\"https:\/\/shop.peaksports.com\/products\/the-focused-sports-kid-digital\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">BUY NOW<\/a>\n\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Identifying Focus Issues in Young Athletes A sports parent writes: &#8220;My child gets fouled a lot, when the referee fails to make a call, or when it builds through a game, he sometimes loses control. 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