Help Sports Kids Have Fun In Sports
Don’t bring a Nobel-Prize winning professor to teach your young sports kids the physics behind throwing a ball. Instead, focus on games like “Simon Says,” and “Hokey Pokey.”
That’s the word from VJ Stanley, a retired college hockey coach and youth sports coach of 30 years who is author of “Stop The Tsunami in Youth Sports,” He says that the youth sports scene right now is a “man-made disease” that can be fixed–and we need to start with the youngest kids.
His most important tip:
Make sure the kids are having fun. Yeah, yeah, you say. You’ve heard this before. But Stanley in Part Two of our interview with him, shared lots of great details about how to ensure young kids have fun.
Young kids will have fun if you don’t focus on the score but instead play lots of games that appeal to them. These include Simon Says and Hokey Pokey.
“Keep in mind that they’re not mini-adults or remote-controlled robots,” he says. “Playing Simon Says in sports is all about young kids being active and using their bodies. Play games with them, the sillier the better, and they will dictate their interest. It’s all about them.”
Help Young Athletes Enjoy Sports
Focusing on awareness and teamwork is key, Stanley says.
“You want them to learn a little about enjoying the game, what competition is all about, and teamwork.”
When he coaches young kids, he says, their faces light up.
“To have that many kids smiling makes me happy.”
It’s also critical to focus on what’s happening right now-not on what’s going to happen when it’s time to add up the score.
“Once they’re living in the moment and having fun, it’s really great,” he says.
If coaches want to “count,” something, they might want to count how many times kids touch the ball, Stanley suggests.
“Young kids are generally terrible players,” he says. “They’re supposed to be terrible.”
And keep in mind that kids who show promise at 5 or 6 or 10 aren’t always the kids who make Division 1 later in life. “Only 10% of kids who are the best at 10 are the best at 18,” he says.
Want to learn more about how to introduce young kids to sports and ensure they stay in the game and enjoy sports for the long haul?
Expert Interview – Exclusive Audio with VJ Stanley
At Kids’ Sports Psychology, we’ve got lots of resources for you, including Part 2 of our interview with Stanley. Exclusive members of Kids’ Sports Psychology can access the full interview here:
Expert Interview – How To Help Kids Have Fun in Sports!
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P.S. Don’t forget to check out our interview with Stanley, who gives tons of unique tips for introducing kids to sports:
Members Only – Interview with VJ Stanley
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